April 26, 2007Dance Class

Filed under: Ask Meryl by merylrunion |

Meryl,
How do I get the attention of my dance class between dances? They’re focused on each other and don’t want to focus on me.

Meryl Responds

Say,

If you enjoyed that dance, clap once. If you want to learn how to do that dance even better, clap twice.

The ones that hear you will get the attention of the rest of the group.

Share
View/add to comments (1) | Email This Post Email This Post

Related posts which may interest you

    • Success Story: Dance transforms speaking effectiveness
    • This Week in the World – How Bad Is It?
    • Reader Success Story: Trainer applies PowerPhrases when sideswiped at a seminar
    • Ask Meryl: Guilt by Association
    • Ask Meryl ~ Stop rambling

1 Comment »

  1. Having been a dance teacher myself many years ago, I used this trick. I used to simply stand at the front of the room and say nothing (and stop the music, as well). Eventually, students noticed the “silence” — which spoke far louder than anything I could have said. All it took was a couple of times doing this for it to eventually become “habit” (the habit being that once the dance run-through was completed, they didn’t congregate into micro-conversations and awaited further instruction from me).

    Hope this helps!

    Judy :-)

    Comment by Judy — April 26, 2007 @ 12:28 pm

RSS feed for comments on this post. | TrackBack URI
You can also bookmark this on del.icio.us or check the cosmos

Leave a comment




XHTML ( You can use these tags): <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong> .

« Reader Story ~ I Spoke, They Listened    I’ll Let You Take Care of This »

Newsletter Sign Up

Name
Email
Follow Meryl on Twitter image link

RSS Feed

Keep current with SpeakStrong Posts using Google RSS Reader



Categories

  • Admin Assistants
  • Announcements and events
  • Ashley
  • Ask Meryl
  • B2B associate courtships
  • Book Reviews
  • Character-based Communication
  • Discussion Topic
  • Dynamic dignity/corporate ignominy
  • Expectation Management
  • How to restore sanity
  • Hubby series
  • Kids
  • Kudo Corner
  • Leadership
  • New Dynamics
  • Newsletter
  • Nurses
  • Poison Phrase of the Week
  • Power Phrase Quick Tip
  • Quote
  • Reader comment
  • Reader Stories
  • Speak Strong, smart and sweet
  • Success Story
  • Success story in progress
  • The PowerPhrase of the Week
  • The SpeakStrong Method
  • This Week in the World
  • Tip of the week
  • Uncategorized
Powered by WordPress
Theme by Sreejith, Customized by MyBlogCoach
Copyright © 2012 A PowerPhrase a Week