Comments on: Ask Meryl ~ God Bless

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 13:29:25 +0000

I can usually find something to say on any & every topic. But this time I think all those who commented before me have said it all. I am just grateful to know there are people like all of you in this world.

By: Karen

Karen — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:19:12 +0000

Personally, I’d appreciate the kind sentiment.

Not sure of the receipient’s religious affiliation, but my colleagues include Hindus, Buddhists, Muslims, Jews, Mormons, Protestants, Catholics, Orthodox Christians, Sikhs, Agnostics, and Atheists. (I’m probably missing someone!) They span a wide range of nationalities and cultures.

Folks from several of these have difficulty relating to my relationship with God. This, when offering consolation, I consider how to share the sentiment so its best positioned to be interpreted similarly. (Presumably one is trying to convey benefit to listener, not just voicing one’s emotions.) I don’t betray my religion, but do seek an approach that fits and respects both of us. “May you find the strength needed to guide you through this difficult time” etc.

That said, my colleagues respect my traditions/ beliefs too. If I were to wish blessings from God, even if our religions don’t match, most would likely see it as well-intended sentiment and either let it go or appreciate the gesture. Its the thought that counts… but its also considerate to try to give struggling folks the day off from cultural translation.

By: Phoebe

Phoebe — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 18:15:22 +0000

I believe we should practice our religion — every day.
I find nothing wrong asking God’s blessing for someone we are trying to comfort. It’s been my experience that people who believe in their religion, no matter what that is, are nicer people. After all, every religion teaches how to relate to God and to your fellow human being.

By: Audra Tompkins

Audra Tompkins — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 16:57:34 +0000

As an atheist, I understand the frustration involved in living in a world where the existence of God is, by most, assumed, and invoking God in instances of supplication, demand, cursing, and almost every other part of life happens at least six thousand times daily. It generally makes me feel that to most people, without God we would be unable to carry out any daily functions, and people suffering from illness would have no chance of recovery (among other things God can be praised or blamed for).

However, how I feel about religion makes absolutely no difference unless someone is pouring holy water over me in an attempt to exorcise my demons. The fact that I find turning to God a copout for facing things head-on has no bearing on the fact that others turn to their gods for solace, comfort, answers, blame, and etc. Being judged and persecuted for beliefs is as bad as being persecuted and judged for non-beliefs. If you find comfort in a God, then that is your comfort. I wouldn’t insult your good intentions due to religious differences.

By: Beatrice

Beatrice — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 13:30:07 +0000

Incidents like this are spoiling genuine well intentioned spontaneous freedom to empathise with colleagues and friends. People are queueing up to be offended at even the slightest word open to their own sometimes unfair interpretation. If everyone had to analyse every possible permutation, faith, preference etc we would be reluctant to speak at all due to fear of being criticised or made to feel bad about a kind gesture freely given. If people took more notice of the genuine sentiment and goodwill rather than microscopic potential for offence, we could all relax and enjoy good conversation and interaction with others.