July 15, 2008Power Phrase ~ I understand how you can see it that way

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When you have great communication with someone who thinks differently from you, it can be fascinating to find out how differently you interpret the same things. When you discover someone took your words in a way you never intended, before you clarify, acknowledge:

  • I understand how you could see it that way.

If you don’t understand, seek to understand before you clarify. That gives motivation for more dialogue.

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