March 24, 2009PowerPhrase of the Week ~ The man I love (manager I support, etc.) keeps interrupting me

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Ron chatted away as Becky packed a box for Ron to take to the post office. At one point, Ron asked Becky to work a little faster since he wanted to leave soon. Becky replied,

  • I understand and I’m working as fast as I can. The man I love keeps interrupting me.

Sounds better than, I’ll get it done faster if you’ll shut up, doesn’t it?

Adjust ito to use at work – depending on your relationship with the person.

  • The manager I support keeps interrupting me.
  • Someone I respect is distracting me from the job.
  • My friend keeps saying things I want to hear.

Of course you might want to simply say,

  • While I want to hear what you have to say, I need to focus if I’m going to get this done.
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  1. At work there is a co-worker who loves to chat.
    Not just a 5 or 10 minute talk but 30 or 40 minutes.
    I have said to him: I need to get this done, I have to
    finish this, let’s continue this conversation later.
    You’re right that it depends on your relationship with the person. I might just say “quiet” to my husband.
    I do realize that I’m trying to take control away from
    the person interrupting me by suggesting they take some
    other action.

    Comment by Phoebe — March 25, 2009 @ 10:53 am

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