September 1, 2009Luann faces guy choices like our communication choices
If you read Luann, you know there are three young men competing for her affections. And they each embody different qualities. Gunther is intellectual. Elwood is a power guy. And Quill is a charmer.
Most drama is based on conflicts and choosing between opposites. The resolution comes when we make that choice. However, the highest resolution comes when we integrate seemingly opposing qualities.
Some communication training emphasizes getting tough. Other training emphasizes building connections. Still other training puts the emphasis on logic and reason. Of course no approach is absolute – and Luann’s suitors are not one dimensional. But their tendencies are quite clear.
The best relationship candidates blend the different qualities and are able to draw on the one that best suits the needs of the situation. And the best communication approaches do the same – they invite you to speak strong, smart AND sweet, with the emphasis that best suits the situation.
Find your balance and pick your PowerPhrases.
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