September 20, 2009PowerPhrases for kids when a friend’s parent dies

Filed under: Kids by merylrunion |

Wow. The Detective Mom is wondering how to coach her kids in empathizing with their friends whose Dad just died.

Her post came just as I’ve been finalizing a song about losing my late hubby called “The Hardest Part.” “The hardest part is to act like nothing’s wrong.”

Kids can be a bit too straightforward in these matters… or are they? “I’m sorry for your loss” sound so inauthentic to me. “I wish your dad didn’t die” sounds real.

I suggested she have them discuss what they wanted to hear when they lost something they loved or someone. But I also said I’d ask you for your advice.  Thoughts?

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