November 16, 2009Poison Phrase: You’re angry, aren’t you?

Filed under: Poison Phrase of the Week by merylrunion |

Questions are a valuable way to get information, clarify assumptions, and show respect for other people. But questions like,

- You’re angry, aren’t you?

…aren’t really questions. They’re assumptions disguised as questions.

  • What are you feeling?

or,

  • Are you angry?

are better approaches.

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