March 2, 2010Poison Phrase: How cheap can you go?

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Some people are fun to work with and it’s almost an honor to accommodate their tight budgets. Others seem to slime vendors just by asking. A client asked a friend,

- How cheap can you go on this?

He angrily replied,

- How cheap are you?

Of course that signals the message “I’m the kind of person who goes cheap.” Who likes that? But wording like,

  • Can you work with me on the price?

signals a message, “I’m the kind of person who works with people.” That feels so much better!

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  1. A printer I knew had a sign: “Fast, cheap and good. You can have two of the three.”

    The need to sell value is always important. Re-framing the discussion as you suggested is much more helpful.

    Comment by Sharon — March 3, 2010 @ 9:29 pm

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