It took us 16 years to learn to live with each other fairly successfully, and now we're both learning to live with ourselves. We're listening to ourselves, getting to know our own hearts, quirks and natures.
We're redesigning our lives based on what we're learning about who we are—who we really are—not who we think we should be. It's a bottom up approach—led by observation, experiment and alignment.
We're learning to:
- stop putting pressure on ourselves and let ourselves be who we are
- help ourselves grow
- support ourselves in achieving our deepest desires
- bring out the best of who we really are.
It's humbling at times, but empowering overall.
Perhaps this quest will be fulfilled more quickly than the last one.