Sometimes feedback is very matter of fact. I need Angela to correct my typos.
Other times, situations call for feedback as a mirror. If I have a big new idea, it helps me to have my ideas refelcted back to me. Great feedback does that.
Sometimes we're bigger than anyone can see. That makes it hard for people to reflect back bigness.
Other times we're bigger than we can see. The best coaches reflect that back. I love it when I share myself and see in someone's response that I'm bigger than I knew. Now, that's a gift!